My Open Letter to Scumbag Parents....

There is an old saying that children "don't ask to be born."  Of course when it comes from a rebellious teenager, their mouths should be washed out with soap. But when put in the context of adult speak, it is so profound. 

Mr. Schwarzenegger, being a man will always trump being a conservative Republican.  With that being said, the fact that you cheated on your wife and had a lovechild is neither surprising nor unexpected- especially since you are a politician.    However, taking away a young man's chance to grow up as a brother to his half-siblings or a son to his father is inexcusable.  Who were you really trying to protect here?  You impregnate your housekeeper WHILE YOUR WIFE IS PREGNANT and instead of being a decent human being by owning up to responsibility, you kindle the fire to dark family secrets and psychological despair.  For someone who does not believe in abortion, you definitely made a lane for it.  Just because your son is alive doesn't mean you didn't abort him.  You did. Own it and live with it. Scumbag.

Mildred Baena, of course women also cheat, and you are just as responsible for this mess as the Terminator.  However, the fact that you strutted your pregnant self around your and his REAL family is some bold shit (sorry, expletive was necessary).  It's ironic that you are now in "hiding."  When you come out, and you will-predictably with Gloria Allred as your lawyer- don't even think of playing the victim.  DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT! You were scared to lose your job?  You are a housekeeper. In L.A.  He made you keep quiet? I'm sure he did, but where is your dignity as a mother?  Why would you willingly let your son grow up not knowing his true family?  I hate when parents say they were "protecting" their children.  HOW?  Really, I need you to explain it to me like I'm a 5 yr old.  Did you love this man?  Perhaps. Guess what, I don't give a crap! He was married and so were you.  Did you really think the governor of California would leave his wife for you? I blame JLo. Ladies, Maid in Manhattan is JUST A MOVIE.  No, I'm not cutting Ms. Baena any slack. None.  You chose to have unprotected sex with a married man, and have his child. Yet, despite all of your motherly instincts, you forced him to live a lie for the first 14 yrs of his life: he will spend the rest of it trying to come to terms with the truth. Scumbag.

Juliane McCrery I will not even give you space on my blog.  I am only typing your name so anyone who reads this will know you deserve to be punished to the fullest extent of the law.  There is never an excuse to hurt children. NEVER. Kill yourself.  RIP Camden Hughes and I am prayerful that you will know true love in your next life.    

Women and men without children are often called "selfish."  But isn't having or not having children a selfish act in and of itself? For whatever reason, it is a choice.  And once here, they are little human beings that deserve unconditional love, support, and TRUTH. Whenever a child is hurt as a result of delusional, irrational explanations of trying to protect them, I take it personal. Whether I know the child or not.  I respect my elders, but I respect children even more.

Sincerely,
Opinionated Diva 

Get Inspired. Discover You. Inspire: The True Circle of Life

In the age of ipods, ipads, nooks, kindles and the like, it's quite the mystery why hard copy books aren't free.  I am one of the few old-school readers who believe that reading is an experience; and for me that means turning every page.  So how does one with a love of books get through life?  My friends, I have found the answer.  After years of being a literary loner, I am now the proud owner of a New York Public Library Card.

In the 4 short weeks I have been a library card holder, I can honestly say it has changed my life.  After checking out my first book, I decided to embark on a journey to learn as much about my history as possible.  Thinking back I realize that what we are taught in grade school, even college, is maybe 15% of the whole story; no matter the subject.  So my posts will still of course always have the OD humor (again, I can't make my life up if I tried), but I will be writing more serious pieces here and there.  I don't think I am the best writer in the world, but I do believe it is a gift.  If I can inspire someone, young or old, and enhance their life experience through the power of words, I believe it's my duty to do so. 

Random [Opinionated Diva] Side Note: 23rd street NY Public library- It would help me SO much if you actually put the catalog ranges on the book shelves.  I love walking blindly and stumbling upon a literary treasure, but not if it's gonna take longer than my lunch break! Love you more:-)

This story is made in part by my good friend Susana Hernandez who introduced me to the idea of getting a library card.  You too should get inspired. I highly recommend it.  Find your public library